Being an offbeat lovin' Groom

What does being an offbeat lovin' groom mean? What are your options? What is your part in the grand theme of your wedding day? What does offbeat mean anyway?


At home you may call yourself a gamer, history buff, science nerd, whatever. In the wedding world, we call that offbeat. And we celebrate it!










A few of the ways that YOU can celebrate your offbeat-ness on the big day are boutonnieres, the grooms cake, your vows, your outfit and even your ring.

So take a moment to think about how you would like to express your quirky inner self and run it by your offbeat lovin' fiance!









I'm sure your other half will appreciate the help with ideas and inspiration!

Oh and leave us a comment to tell us about your inspiration!

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Man-cessorize Your Wedding!

Accessorizing for the men in your wedding can be a challenge, but there are a lot of options out there, if you know where to look!

Cravats are available in almost any fabric, in any color. They take the place of the traditional bow tie, or neck tie, and look fantastic with a white shirt! These silk cravats by ElegantAscot are an excellent alternative to a tie, and are easily customizable to your colors!

Cufflinks add a flair of the formal to your event, and men's shirts with french cuffs are not difficult to find. Cufflinks of nearly every style can be found on Etsy, and most artists are willing to make matching sets for the groomsmen, like these from NorthwykeCreations.

And how about avoiding the traditional flower boutonniere, and try something new? Many options are available to allow you to spread your wedding theme a little further.

What better choice than the summery pinwheels made by Rule42?

We at Offbeat Etsy Weddings are here to help you make your day everything you hoped it would be. Let us know if you're looking for something, and we will be thrilled to help you find it!